Who are you really texting?

Have you ever wondered about that unusual chat you had with a long-time friend, only to discover that s/he was away some place distant at the time? Or, about the sudden change in content, context and tone while engaged in a long bout of texting? Or, even the occasional emails from family members that make you wonder if they have stopped taking their meds?

Online voyeurism is a growing issue which few of us think about on a day to day basis, but which we should think about because it points to disordered personalities with potential access to intimate details capable of facilitating predatory behaviors against children and compromising adults.

In a recent experiment to test home camera systems, the New Zealand Herald hacked a collection of IP addresses with security cameras installed. The staff discovered that they could access homes and businesses with ease. Had they been true voyeurs they would have inserted themselves into the lives of their targets and learned more than any stranger has the right to know about the private moments of others.

It is probably wise to remember that everything has a camera attached these days, from  a simple dial-in dial-out to a smartphone, a tablet, laptop and desktop.

When dealing with the compulsive communicator in chats, texts or emails, it is easy enough, as an adult, to pick up change in tone based, often, upon basic levels of maturity, experience and intimacy. Most compulsive communicators lack the ability to adapt to the target's life experience and fail to incorporate those little personal details which build up over the years among and between people.

Sadly, it is easier for adults to think down to a child's level based, this time, on the lack of life experience, developing ego and trust issues. In other words, children as shown time and time again, cannot pick up on the nuance and subtleties of interpersonal communication.

The question now becomes, what do we do about the tablet camera as we prop up in bed, or that seemingly secure security system at home, or the smartphone which follows us into intimate places?

The Internet has moved beyond its cyber crime potential into a world of unrestrained voyeurism where we are visible in the street, at our windows, on the beach. Our voicemails are fair game to any sick mind with our password, and our correspondence is conquest and rite of passage in the real-time game of virtual reality.

And, we are the conduits, because we carry the tools voyeurs use against us with us 24/7.

The new eternal conundrum is, "What is privacy?"

With universal access to our lives, the issue of protecting online copyright becomes redundant.

The Internet is our perceptual signifier - the vehicle and expression of reality which makes life in the flesh a gossamer reflection on a screen.

Nothing is sacred, and everything is fair game.


Heather Vallance has worked extensively on defining information literacy as it applies to taken-for-granted knowledge and life skills.